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Scrambled cities: If you're not gonna do the work(on your soul), then you might as well work til you die

 There are two tiers in normal life. Those who are survive and those who thrive.  But nothing is a mistake in life: Nothing comes by chance. You have to prepare for it.  If you thought life was about making money and beating out the Jones's, you've lost already.  Life is: Desire for connection. All unhealthy competition is isolating. We live in an isolated-enough world already. This connection comes from a surprising place: Self-acceptance. A lot of us need to go back to the classroom. A lot of us need to take a silent breather and check in with what we need. This takes serious work. It's the real work. It relies on respect for others and self-respect.  A lot of people in the self-help community try to push the self aside: Manning up is the only side of it they see. But there are certain non-negotiables in this life. Certain things we can't cheat ourselves out of. We are not a piece of meat being acted on.    However, this is where God comes in. Some o...
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Are you in a relationship with an infj? If so, you may be wondering if you're the only one dealing with the toxicity of this personality type. The thing is, infj's can be quite toxic to those around them – and it's not always easy to spot the signs.

Here are five signs you're dating or married to a toxic infj:

1. They're always right.

infj's have a tendency to think they're always right, and they're not shy about letting others know it. If you dare to challenge them, they'll quickly shut you down with their superior reasoning and intellect.

2. They're always critical.

infj's can be very critical of those around them, and they're never afraid to voice their opinion. No matter how constructive their criticism may be, it can be extremely damaging to the recipient's self-esteem.

3. They're always emotional.

infj's are known for their intense emotions, and they're not afraid to express them – especially in a destructive way. If you can't handle drama and emotional outbursts, then an infj is not the right type for you.


4. They're always distant.

infj's can be quite distant and emotionally unavailable, which can be incredibly frustrating to their loved ones. If you feel like you're always struggling to get close to them, it's a sign that there's something wrong.

5. They're always manipulative.

infj's are experts at manipulation, and they often use it to control those around them. If you feel like you're constantly being manipulated into doing things you don't want to do, it's time to end the relationship.

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