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Can you be quiet when flirting without seeming creepy or desperate? How? 




It can be hard to know how to be outgoing when, well... you aren't an outgoing person, to begin with. On the one hand, you don't want to seem creepy or desperate by being too stiff and calculated. But the point is, you don't want to underwhelm your potential partner by being too quiet. So what can you do to be sure you hit all the right notes?




Here are a few tips for striking the right balance:

1. Start by finding common ground.





If you can find some common ground with the person you're flirting with, it will be easier to relax and let your personality come through. So, take the time to get to know them a little bit. Find out what they're interested in, and share some of your own interests with them.

2. Be yourself.

                


Flirting is all about being yourself and letting your personality shine through. So, don't try to be someone you're not. Just relax and have fun with it.

3. Be playful.

Flirting should be playful and fun. So, make sure to smile, laugh, and joke around with the person you're interested in.







4. Keep it light.

Flirting is all about having fun, so try to avoid getting too serious or intense. Keep the conversation light and breezy, and save the serious stuff for later.
                          


5. Take things slow.

Don't rush things. Let the conversation flow naturally, and take things slow. If the person you're flirting with seems interested, then go ahead and ask them out on a date. But, if they're not ready, then back off and give them some space.



Yes, you can be quiet when flirting without seeming creepy or desperate, but it takes a bit of practice. The key is to focus on the other person and make sure your body language is open and inviting.Make sure to smile and keep your tone light and flirty. If you can manage to keep the conversation flowing, you'll be able to flirt without being too over-the-top.

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