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Throw a dog a bone

 Girls make a million excuses to avoid being with the guy who isn't the one they're interested in at that moment.  They keep a bunch of sausages on the backburner most times.  This one girl who I liked said her tonsils were out and she couldn't make it after 3 months of love emojis and this kind of thing. Then it was something else. She said she was in a dating relationship. Only, there was no evidence on IG. Women change their minds all the time and they don't like to be forced to meet someone.  Maybe they just like talking to you on the DM's for an ego boost. One thing's for sure though; If you try to force them to meet they back out quicker than an alleyway cat before a pile of exploding excrement.

Emotional Support if You're Caught in the Rumination Cycle

 It might take a while of sifting through all of your old regrets to realize that it's simply not worth it. That it chases people and opportunities away and makes your life seem stale. 




Well I'm 36 now, and I've finally had enough of rumination. Rumination makes you ill. It literally causes your own body and mind to attack themselves. 

Every time you feel like ruminating, try to remember the times whenyour mind was clear as crystal when things felt orderly and meaningful. 

Rumination is the opposite of that. In order to maintain a crystal-clear perspective, we have to remain in the present. 

This has as a different tone to it, and a different rhythm. Things aren't slowed up in the present. They are lighter and more comfortable. 

They are also bearable. Rumination is like a dirty layer decade-old cellophane over everything. It makes life feel miserable, murky and is a headache to live through. 

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