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Scrambled cities: If you're not gonna do the work(on your soul), then you might as well work til you die

 There are two tiers in normal life. Those who are survive and those who thrive.  But nothing is a mistake in life: Nothing comes by chance. You have to prepare for it.  If you thought life was about making money and beating out the Jones's, you've lost already.  Life is: Desire for connection. All unhealthy competition is isolating. We live in an isolated-enough world already. This connection comes from a surprising place: Self-acceptance. A lot of us need to go back to the classroom. A lot of us need to take a silent breather and check in with what we need. This takes serious work. It's the real work. It relies on respect for others and self-respect.  A lot of people in the self-help community try to push the self aside: Manning up is the only side of it they see. But there are certain non-negotiables in this life. Certain things we can't cheat ourselves out of. We are not a piece of meat being acted on.    However, this is where God comes in. Some o...
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The positive side of total rejection

 Over the past few days I've faced a few situations that - well let's just put it mildly - put into question my validity as a male worth his procreational function. 

The women I've been sending messages to have not replied the way I've expected, especially when receiving pictures from me. 

That hurts, okay? 

But there's more to it than that. 

I know for instance that women are Geiger counters for social approval. When you ain't much, you ain't much. 

So I don't go too hard on myself for that reason. 

If women don't feel it's worth their time to be connected to me then so be it. 

There's also a positive side to all of this, which is that, at bare minimum, these women can push me (potentially) to where I'm meant to be. 

There was a time when my collagen kept my face in structural order. 

That time has come and gone. 

I didn't have to fight to get the attention of women about 5 or 6 years ago. It came naturally. 

Right now though, post-breakup, I'm in a situation where I have to basically beg and perform fantastical feats to gain sexual attention. 

This means that frequent trips to the gym are all the more necessary. 

This means that I can no longer get by on a meal of mediocre nutritional value. 

I have to supplement everything. I have to supplement my off-time with extra work. 

And that's okay. It's a more honest way to live I suppose. 

So next time you send out 100 messages  and only get one reply, you know why. 

It's because you aren't putting in the work. Post 35, you really do have to lay it all on the line. 

I'm going to be a sexy 45 and 50 year old. There's no doubt about it. I'm going to be a phenomenal person by then and I won't stop there. 

Time is short. Urgency is vital. 

Thank you, women for signaling where I'm meant to be in my life. 

Thank you sincerely.



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