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Scrambled cities: If you're not gonna do the work(on your soul), then you might as well work til you die

 There are two tiers in normal life. Those who are survive and those who thrive.  But nothing is a mistake in life: Nothing comes by chance. You have to prepare for it.  If you thought life was about making money and beating out the Jones's, you've lost already.  Life is: Desire for connection. All unhealthy competition is isolating. We live in an isolated-enough world already. This connection comes from a surprising place: Self-acceptance. A lot of us need to go back to the classroom. A lot of us need to take a silent breather and check in with what we need. This takes serious work. It's the real work. It relies on respect for others and self-respect.  A lot of people in the self-help community try to push the self aside: Manning up is the only side of it they see. But there are certain non-negotiables in this life. Certain things we can't cheat ourselves out of. We are not a piece of meat being acted on.    However, this is where God comes in. Some o...

I have something better than sending enemies to hell

It's called peace of mind, and it happens when you decided to stop sinning and do what's right. 

There is this girl; this annoying girl from my apartment who refused to greet me last time I saw her. 

In a previous encounter, I had a slight panic attack in the elevator with her in it. 




She said it's okay while in the elevator, but the next time around, in the hotel lobby, she refused to greet me.

Now out of desperation, I began a dialogue with a laoisan girl on facebook dating. This is a girl who is stuck in a bad job with an abusive boss but dresses scantily (and that's why I got involved with her - when I saw her dating profile; When her boss dropped her salary from 12000 to 9000 baht, I sent her 3000 baht to keep her afloat; now she sends messages where her boss says he is trying to sleep at the shop where she stays.) 

I don't know what to do about  all of this. It's embarrassing for me and it's embarrassing for the women involved. 

So I just do what's familiar. I work. I do my own thing. 

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