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Scrambled cities: If you're not gonna do the work(on your soul), then you might as well work til you die

 There are two tiers in normal life. Those who are survive and those who thrive.  But nothing is a mistake in life: Nothing comes by chance. You have to prepare for it.  If you thought life was about making money and beating out the Jones's, you've lost already.  Life is: Desire for connection. All unhealthy competition is isolating. We live in an isolated-enough world already. This connection comes from a surprising place: Self-acceptance. A lot of us need to go back to the classroom. A lot of us need to take a silent breather and check in with what we need. This takes serious work. It's the real work. It relies on respect for others and self-respect.  A lot of people in the self-help community try to push the self aside: Manning up is the only side of it they see. But there are certain non-negotiables in this life. Certain things we can't cheat ourselves out of. We are not a piece of meat being acted on.    However, this is where God comes in. Some o...

NoJac until Waifu day 26

Facts about social isolation I don't like to admit: 

  • I don't have a leg to stand on in the dating world until such time as I'm able to have a social life and/or some kind of life altogether that I can bring a girl into. 
  • I have a short fuse and many insecurities because of this. 
  • I'm 37 and need to work cracker-jack hard before any of this is even possible. 
  • I need a network. If I don't have a network I'm a prey to any old shark that might come along. Even girls. 

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