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Scrambled cities: If you're not gonna do the work(on your soul), then you might as well work til you die

 There are two tiers in normal life. Those who are survive and those who thrive.  But nothing is a mistake in life: Nothing comes by chance. You have to prepare for it.  If you thought life was about making money and beating out the Jones's, you've lost already.  Life is: Desire for connection. All unhealthy competition is isolating. We live in an isolated-enough world already. This connection comes from a surprising place: Self-acceptance. A lot of us need to go back to the classroom. A lot of us need to take a silent breather and check in with what we need. This takes serious work. It's the real work. It relies on respect for others and self-respect.  A lot of people in the self-help community try to push the self aside: Manning up is the only side of it they see. But there are certain non-negotiables in this life. Certain things we can't cheat ourselves out of. We are not a piece of meat being acted on.    However, this is where God comes in. Some o...
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Handling shit-tests from wayward women

 "Shit tests" are a concept often discussed in dating and social dynamics, referring to situations where a person (typically a woman) tests someone's confidence, boundaries, or emotional resilience. These tests are usually subtle comments or behaviors meant to gauge how someone will react under pressure.

A "sigma male" is often described as a confident, independent, and self-reliant man who doesn't follow traditional social hierarchies. Here's how someone fitting that description might handle "shit tests":

  1. Stay Calm and Unreactive: Sigma males tend to stay composed and indifferent in the face of challenges. When faced with a shit test, they don’t get defensive or overly emotional. Instead, they maintain their calm, which demonstrates confidence and self-assurance.

  2. Playfully Turn the Tables: Rather than taking a test too seriously, a sigma male might respond with humor or by flipping the script. For example, if someone says something to provoke insecurity, he might respond with a witty or playful comment that shows he’s not affected.

  3. Set Boundaries: A sigma male is clear about his boundaries and won’t hesitate to assert them. If a test crosses the line into disrespect, he would calmly but firmly communicate that he doesn’t tolerate such behavior.

  4. Stay True to Yourself: Sigma males are known for their independence and strong sense of self. They don’t feel the need to change or adapt to please others. When faced with a shit test, they remain authentic and true to their values.

  5. Ignore and Move On: Sometimes, the best response to a shit test is no response at all. Sigma males may simply ignore the provocation and move on, signaling that they are above petty games.

The key for a sigma male in handling these situations is to maintain self-respect, not take the tests personally, and continue to be authentic and confident in who they are.

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