Acting Cruelly: How women wreck the men who love them.

Dear men: It doesn't make sense because it's not supposed to

Let's get down to the nitty gritty here. The dating world is pretty toxic at the moment. If you've been in it for long enough, you've probably seen situations that will put your mind in the equivalent of hell for an extended period. You have two choices: Either give up or grit your teeth and try again. For instance: 

-Unless you're treating her cruelly, nine times out of ten you're the one being cruelly treated, ghosted, ignored etc.

-She'll spend three months talking to you, even double-texting and sending heart emojis, and still fail to make a commitment to meet you. 

-You're not yourself anymore; you've had the wind taken out of you by being run around from pillar to post by women who claim to have interest but in the end flake on you at the last minute.

This dynamic shows what most ordinary men go through when dating women. It's become the norm for them, and many of them  are already on the verge of giving up or have given up already. 

What I want you to know is: 

1. Everything is going to be okay. 

2. There is a way out of this cycle. 

First off, you should know that she's only doing this to you because she's lost her hope in love before. Someone did the same thing to her. This is why she's doing it to you before you get the chance. 

Heartbreak for a woman is the ultimate despair. Men come into the world with the wrong education. Usually in the form of pornography.

So I don't know your situation, but while it may seem like unrequited love,  all you need to do is buck up and make a few things known to her: 

How to Move Forward:

So, what do you do when you're faced with this frustrating dynamic?

• Acknowledge the Situation: First, accept that the relationship may not work out the way you had hoped. Tell her you understand, and you’re okay with that. This will help you both let go of any pressure or expectations that might be causing anxiety.

• Understand Her Behavior: If you’ve called her out on inconsistent behavior, it may have triggered a wave of emotions in her that even she doesn’t fully comprehend. Be patient, but also recognize that you deserve clarity and respect in return.

• Let Her Know You’re Open: If she’s ready to trust again and work through whatever is holding her back, let her know you’re there for her. But be mindful—you can’t force someone to change, nor should you wait forever. Setting boundaries for your own emotional well-being is equally important.