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Scrambled cities: If you're not gonna do the work(on your soul), then you might as well work til you die

 There are two tiers in normal life. Those who are survive and those who thrive.  But nothing is a mistake in life: Nothing comes by chance. You have to prepare for it.  If you thought life was about making money and beating out the Jones's, you've lost already.  Life is: Desire for connection. All unhealthy competition is isolating. We live in an isolated-enough world already. This connection comes from a surprising place: Self-acceptance. A lot of us need to go back to the classroom. A lot of us need to take a silent breather and check in with what we need. This takes serious work. It's the real work. It relies on respect for others and self-respect.  A lot of people in the self-help community try to push the self aside: Manning up is the only side of it they see. But there are certain non-negotiables in this life. Certain things we can't cheat ourselves out of. We are not a piece of meat being acted on.    However, this is where God comes in. Some o...

Shattered hearts club

Trauma sufferers know the desperation. 

The feeling of utter death that repeats. 

It can come out in back pain, in heart palpitations. 

It can drive them to do stupid things that ruin them. 

And ruins the trust with others. When they could least afford.

Trauma sufferers know the numbness that ensues

When, like a cloying baby, they reach out to others

On a bus that's 200,000 times the size of them

And they approach someone with sadness in their eyes

And they get a massive quaking instead of the love

That they sought. And they're frightening to others.

And they're frightened of others.

And the whole thing repeats

And repeats. 

And repeats.



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